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7 Things I Wish Every Lifter Knew About Fat Loss After 35

If you’re over 35 and struggling with fat loss, you're one of about a million people. I work with men and women every day who feel like their bodies don’t respond the way they used to. The truth that you maybe don't want to hear? Fat loss after 35 isn’t about a broken metabolism or magical “age-related weight gain.”  It’s about understanding how your lifestyle, habits, and training need to adapt as you get older.

Here are the 7 things I wish every lifter knew about fat loss after 35.

1. Your metabolism hasn’t “slowed”. You have.

Most people blame their metabolism once they hit their mid-30s, but science shows your resting metabolic rate barely changes until your 60s. The real difference? You move less.

  • Desk jobs and family life = lower NEAT (non-exercise activity).

  • Less walking, less standing, fewer daily calories burned.

  • The fix: Add simple movement back in. Walking meetings, evening strolls, standing breaks.

Fat loss after 35 starts with getting your activity back up, not “fixing” your metabolism.

2. Strength training is your best fat-loss insurance policy

Cardio burns calories, but strength training keeps muscle, and that’s crucial as you age. Muscle is metabolically active, helps you recover better, and keeps your body composition looking athletic instead of “skinny-fat.”

  • Train 3–4 times a week with progressive overload.

  • Prioritise compound lifts, but don’t ignore machines for joint-friendly options.

  • Think muscle retention first, calorie burn second.

3. You don’t need to train 6 days a week

In fact, training less but smarter often works better. Most lifters over 35 get better results from 3–4 quality sessions than burning themselves out with daily workouts.

  • Recovery takes longer with age, so don’t ignore it.

  • Intensity > volume. Push harder in fewer sessions.

  • Rest days support fat loss through recovery, not laziness.


The sooner you focus on quality over quantity, and that training works best when you focus on being MORE rather than LESS, you'll make better progress.

4. Protein is the closest thing to a fat-loss cheat code

When clients start hitting their protein goals, fat loss suddenly feels easier. Why?

  • Protein keeps you fuller for longer.

  • It protects muscle during a calorie deficit.

  • It improves recovery and performance.

Aim for around 1.5–2.0g per kg of bodyweight daily.

5. You can drink, eat out, and still lose fat

Fat loss after 35 doesn’t mean avoiding a social life. The key is proactive, positive planning, not perfection.

  • Budget calories for meals out by adjusting earlier in the day.

  • Learn portion awareness instead of banning foods.

  • Alcohol slows progress but doesn’t ruin it if managed.

6. Sleep and stress matter more than supplements

If you’re tired and stressed, you’ll struggle with hunger, cravings, and discipline.

  • Poor sleep increases ghrelin (hunger hormone).

  • Stress spikes cortisol, which can affect appetite regulation.

  • No supplement fixes this. Prioritise 7–8 hours of sleep, daily stress outlets, and routine.

7. The scale lies day-to-day, but trends never do

This one drives everyone crazy and turns the scale from a helpful tool into "the sad step", and it doesn't have to be that way. Your body weight will fluctuate daily due to water, hormones, food weight, and sodium.

  • A salty meal or tough workout can make you “gain” 2kg overnight.

  • The only thing that matters is the weekly trend.

  • Track progress with averages, not single weigh-ins.

The Bottom Line on Fat Loss After 35

Getting lean after 35 doesn’t require extreme diets, endless cardio, or giving up your social life. It requires understanding your body, focusing on strength, managing lifestyle factors, and dropping the all-or-nothing mindset.

If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and finally see results, this is the work I do every day with clients.


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